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Did you know that men have been cruising each other for sex at bathhouses since the 15th century?

While the original intention of men’s bathhouses may have been hygiene, today’s gay bathhouses or saunas, along with other types of sex-on-premises-venue (SOPV) or sex venues, are intended as places where you can meet others for casual sex. SOPVs present a place to search and play with a wider variety of people, many of whom might not appear on a dating app grid.

Walking around a gay sauna or SOPV, you might rapidly realise a whole unused set of rules is at play; with everything from navigating consent to being comfortable in a sexualised space, there can be a lot to learn. Here’s what you should know before heading into a sex venue for the first time.

How does a gay sauna operate?

Like a hotel, you’ll arrive at your venue, and there will be a front desk where you’ll pay an admission fee, and in send back, you’ll receive a locker key and a towel.

From there, it’s a matter of heading to the changerooms to change into the towel and store your clothes in a locker. Upon arriving, many people will also shower to freshen up, and many venues may contain douching facilities if you want t

LGBTQ+

Bath is a compact town to and welcoming to all visitors. You’ll locate a broad range of events, nightlife, bars and restaurants to keep you busy during your see, in addition to the city’s world-famous attractions and architecture. 

The city’s accommodation providers, attractions and local businesses all strive to be as inclusive and considerate to guests as workable, so please let them know if you hold any questions or concerns during your visit.

Mandalyns is the city’s longstanding and very popular gay prevent, with events ranging from pub quizzes to production nights and karaoke. No two nights are the same, so when you visit you can assume camp cabaret, drag artists, drink offers and plenty of surprises!

Throughout LGBTQ+ History Month in February you’ll find various events across Bath, hosted by local businesses and the city’s two universities.

Both University of Bath and Bath Spa University have a range of LGBTQ+  groups, events and resources for students, whether you’re studying in the city or visiting.

The city has also launched ‘Out in B&NES’, a publication featuring local Diverse role models and allies

The Freddie Guide to: Bathhouses

What is a bathhouse?

Bathhouses – also known as baths, saunas, or gay saunas – are spaces where queer men* meet to socialise, relax and own sex. They are legal, licensed sex venues, as opposed to regular saunas or steam rooms where people cruise.

The number of gay bathhouses in North America peaked in the 1970s. Most of them closed in the 1980s, as local governments made public health rules to curb the HIV/AIDS epidemic. These rules were often rooted in homophobia. 

Today, there are still bathhouses in most major cities across the world. You can find them through Google or on cruising sites like Squirt and Sniffies.

* Historically, bathhouses only admitted cisgender men. They are generally becoming more inclusive. Many have more relaxed door policies or devoted times and events that are safer spaces for trans and non-binary people. If this applies to you, it’s best to check online or dial ahead before visiting a venue for the first time. 

When you arrive

When you arrive at a bathhouse, you’ll get to a front desk with an attendant. This is where you’ll pay for your entry along with any extras like private rooms (if the venue

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